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Old 07-19-17, 06:05 PM
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Re: Loneliness

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As Finallyfound said above, anxiety;
at the time, you honestly, truly want to do this, to be there, to meet up, to interact, to socialize.

It has absolutely nothing to do with seeing the person; it's the outing in itself.

I'm certainly not saying this is the case for everyone, but it can happen.
Well, maybe that's the case for some people. However, the people I have in mind socialised with me before and have no problem continuing to socialise with other people.

@Finallyfound, what did you mean re: social protocol?
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Well, maybe that's the case for some people. However, the people I have in mind socialised with me before and have no problem continuing to socialise with other people.

@Finallyfound, what did you mean re: social protocol?
I dont know if I can chalk it all up to anxiety. I think some people are really selfish, even if they dont realize it and do not think of other people beyond themselves.
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Well, maybe that's the case for some people. However, the people I have in mind socialised with me before and have no problem continuing to socialise with other people.

@Finallyfound, what did you mean re: social protocol?
It's the case for some people, yes; but then I agree that there are many selfish ones as well.
Sorry to hear this happened to you.
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Old 07-20-17, 02:02 PM
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Re: Loneliness

The reason this bothers me is that it makes me feel like I can never be truly secure in a relationship. Like I can do everything right (at least to my knowledge) and I still can't rely on them not to lose interest out of the blue for no (stated) reason. Like there is no light at the end of the tunnel.
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