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Rebelyell · #**1621** 10-13-18, 05:42 PM

Found out my best friend is dead I can't stop crying n tearing up today :-(

**midnightstar** · #**1622** 10-13-18, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Rebelyell

Found out my best friend is dead I can't stop crying n tearing up today :-(

s Rebs

**namazu** · #**1623** 10-13-18, 06:06 PM

I'm so sorry, Rebs.

psychopathetic · #**1624** 10-13-18, 06:18 PM

((((((((((((((Rebs))))))))))))))

Rebelyell · #**1625** 10-13-18, 07:04 PM

Thanks guys!! What doea it mean when your gf of 4 years.tells you she is.confused and trying to.work.thru.it after asking her.if were.still a.couple?? Should 1 just call it quits w.her?

Fuzzy12 · #**1626** 10-13-18, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Rebelyell

Thanks guys!! What doea it mean when your gf of 4 years.tells you she is.confused and trying to.work.thru.it after asking her.if were.still a.couple?? Should 1 just call it quits w.her?

I think so. I think she's had enough time to make up her mind and to be honest I think she's being selfish by keeping you hanging without actually discussing any problem or telling you what's going in but then four years is a lot. I don't want to tell you to quit a four year relationship based on my instinct.

Rebelyell · #**1627** 10-13-18, 07:45 PM

I don't understand why I can't get an answer fuzzy.

Lunacie · #**1628** 10-13-18, 07:46 PM

Reb

Rebelyell · #**1629** 10-13-18, 07:47 PM

She called and told me she was sorry bout my friend asked if I was hungry n asked if wanted to go out to eat..I turned her down..I did but at same time I don't not with her not right now..if I'm wrong please someone say otherwise.

**Greyhound1** · #**1630** 10-13-18, 08:04 PM

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Found out my best friend is dead I can't stop crying n tearing up today :-(

I’m so sorry Rebs! That’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to deal with. It was a major turning point for the negative in regards to my mental health. I’m only bringing this up because I didn’t address my horrific loss properly. I didn’t seek any help or counseling and 3 mos. later I was a mess. He was much closer to me than my own brother.

My life was going very well at the time and I was very sad but far from depressed after Jason died. Tearing up now just typing his name. I thought, I was able to handle it but 3 mos. after, I couldn’t.

The way my life changed was I began having panic attacks totally out of the blue. I had never really experienced anxiety or fear before this. My mother used to joking say “Hound’s not afraid of the devil himself.” I was very audacious and my mom’s joke wasn’t meant to be a compliment. Usually, hear that after doing something really stupid.

Anyway, sorry to get off track. During the holidays 3 mos. after Jason had passed my fiancé at the time and wife now we’re driving out of town. I was driving and the car in front of me hits a dog. That triggered my first panic horrible attack while I was driving.

I had to pull over because I thought, I was dying and literally couldn’t see. Tunnel vision turned to blackness.

After that, every time I tried to drive, I instantly would have a panic attack. I’m sorry, I didn’t mean for this post to be about me. Your post just brought up emotions from my own loss 21 years ago.

All I really wanted to say was please seek some help now dealing with your loss. Please don’t wait until you may be forced to, like I did. I wish you the best in your grieving process. Just know grieving is a process and it shouldn’t be ignored. I’ve struggled with anxiety ever sense.

Blessed be

Fuzzy12 · #**1631** 10-13-18, 10:25 PM

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Found out my best friend is dead I can't stop crying n tearing up today :-(

I'm so sorry Reb. Hugs hugs.

Little Missy · #**1632** 10-14-18, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Rebelyell

She called and told me she was sorry bout my friend asked if I was hungry n asked if wanted to go out to eat..I turned her down..I did but at same time I don't not with her not right now..if I'm wrong please someone say otherwise.

I would have gone out for a bite with her. If I were you. Knosh together, bread a bit of bread, a little communication.

**sarahsweets** · #**1633** 10-14-18, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Rebelyell

Found out my best friend is dead I can't stop crying n tearing up today :-(

SashaBV · #**1634** 10-14-18, 04:14 PM

I don't know how I'd manage if I lost my best friend. After my sister died, I kept having urges to call her, so I'd call her husband instead because it was almost as good as speaking to her, we both miss her SO much!

Rebelyell · #**1635** 10-14-18, 07:24 PM

Just came back from the funeral parlor.I don't have many tried n true friends at 43 .I think most people once they have their inner circles sadly your outside looking in..the finality of life/death my own mortality.

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